![]() ![]() ![]() It transforms your world.īTW, on the subject of "average people," not everyone sees or experiences everyone the same way. It's not even a possibility that there is anything better, and when you're experiencing it, it's unbelievable. I've adored my wife for 32 years now, and she me, and there is nothing better. When you find that person who makes you complete and whole, and can get past your own insecurities, fears, doubts and relationship-sabotaging baggage, it is everything. I and many others can attest, however, that there is a "being in love" that the phrases you use don't even begin to adequately describe. There's a lot of psychological stuff going on in each person that makes every situation unique in how they experience it. Original Poster: Quit bringing up whatever topic it is, quit crying so much just to get attention, quit being a drama queen then complaining that you are not getting any emotional support when you have caused your own misery, and for crying out loud if things are so bad and he is such a terrible person quit staying in this relationship and move on to someone you are more compatable with.Not all "being in love" is equal or the same for every relationship. I do not however continue to poke the grouchy bear about a sore subject, we discuss a topic like when he is ready to talk about it or if it is me and a sore subject he waits until I am ready to talk about it. Not true for everyone, I talk to my Husband about any issues he and I are having since those issues are between us and they stay between us because that is the only way things will be worked out. Communicate about things.īut, with your girlfriends talk about our emotional stuff. Relationships between a Man and a Women go better if a Women has her girlfriends to talk with.īe with your man, be close, be loving, take care of each other. I heard something once and I'm not going to be able to put it down in such good words. After awhile, all I hear is "blah blah you.do. blah blah" and I could really care less what they're saying and I realize that I have to do the ending. If you're getting into arguments all the time, have you considered that you're just not compatible? I know that if I'm with someone and we're not compatible, all they want to do is yammer on and on about how I need to change whatever to suit them so we're more compatible. However, you lay next to him in this big ball of misery while he falls asleep which is pretty much the best escape there is next to leaving the residence. What he probably needs is for you to leave him alone till he can calm down. You get emotional at the end of the argument, he gets angry. If say, your dog died and he didn't comfort you, then I'd call him out for it, but a fight is a fight and unless you're the victim of severe emotional abuse, in which case, you'd probably not attempt to bring up subjects with him at all, then you should handle the fallout from arguments in your own way. I've always felt crying in an argument was akin to emotional blackmail. I feel like you might be needing a lot more emotional, mental and physical support than any one man (or one army) might provide. How can two people be together when one doesnt aupport the other mentally physically and emotionally. There is more to this than you have disclosed i'm sure. You like the fact that he isn't a sad sap, and brushes off your repeat bedtime b.s., otherwise you would have left him by now.ĭid you leave the last guy who cuddled and told you he was sorry and everything will be alright? could you handle sleeping in a different room than your bf? do you have sex before or after you cry? do you feel refreshed in the morning? I often think when im lying next to him asleep if we can really be together. He on the other hand sleeps through the night and acts like nothing happened the next day. ![]() I feel terribly lonely when we fight and often get depressed. ![]() SO My bf and I, who have been together 3 years, always seem to get into an argument around bed time, and like the story above, I sometimes cry and he just tells me(usually pissed off yelling) to go to bed and rolls over and falls asleep.while im still crying!!! Ive talked to him many times about him not comforting me and it seems like he gets even more annoyed when I get emotional. ![]()
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